Escape

There are times in life when we often forgets what you really want, there are times when you think you know this is what we want but is it true? or is it that all things were imposed on you.

Parimal Donga
3 min readDec 2, 2020

When you really think about it, it is not too hard to distinguish between what you need, want & neither of these but if I don’t have these people will think I am not living or I am failure. Escape from all those emotions that binds you to this worthless state, We often have everything but all we need is perspective, perspective to see good things in ourselves.

What You Really Want??

Is this all you ever wanted? Or does it feel tainted by the feeling of losing of oneself? if it is then escape.. have courage & leap towards new valley as this valley is already sinking you deep enough.

Friend helping you
this is you really helping yourself, don’t ever be your own enemy nor dislike yourself.

I want you to really think about this. Treat yourself like you treat to your best friend when he/she go through the same, what advise would you give? would you encourage him or just let him sink? would you tell him to stop trying hard? or would you tell him to abandon work & go find different thing what he really wants? what would you tell him? really think about it. You are human too, you are allowed to make mistakes.

It is not all in the past, You never lost yourself.

You never lost yourself nor did you found yourself when you did something. It’s all in the heads. Let go of distancing yourself from you. Learn thing about eyes — the way it perceives things. Let feeling of what you want from others be the same feeling when you take care of yourself.

Escape from own reality.

Your real friend is the image you create of yourself who was from start & will be till the end… Be happy, Live your life with purpose.

So we ask…What’s the purpose?

Why all this burden? So if u get the answer to it… Then u will be like.. “Ok, I am suffering this this & this for this Ultimate goal!” But in this pursuit we are always Unhappy just for some illusionary purpose. But now …just imagine a scenario : If you are always happy, dripping with ecstasy, then will you ask this question of purpose of Life? You will simply enjoy! Problem arises when we are conditioned that

LIFE WITHOUT PURPOSE IS MEANINGLESS or HOLLOW.

Is being Happy meaningless? Is being Happy hollow?

Today people are committing suicide, or fights or attacks. It’s simple the outcome of their sadness, grief & suppression over the years. Would you think such things would have happen if people were Happy! Now try this experiment. Do the task or work Whenever you are Happy! First see and do something that makes you happy and then pursue the task and see the result. Your efficiency multiplies, your perception, analysis, rationalism works at higher level and output of your work is far more better! It is FLOW state (can read more about Flow state here)

What is the Purpose of Life?: If we deeply understand Every damn action, work, deed etc. we are doing is to attain the HAPPINESS! So lets be HAPPY AT FIRST PLACE! It can be quoted..

YOUR ONLY DUTY IS TO BE HAPPY!

or

ONLY PURPOSE OF LIFE IS TO BE HAPPY!

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